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	<title>Comments on: Jodie Foster comes out as lesbian says The Guardian</title>
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		<title>By: John Ettorre</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-39485</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ettorre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 21:35:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, thanks for the correction. I&#039;m mixing up my killers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, thanks for the correction. I&#8217;m mixing up my killers.</p>
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		<title>By: Karin</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-39466</link>
		<dc:creator>Karin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2007 18:45:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think John Ettorre meant to reference John Hinkley, Jr. 

Yay for Jodie for acknowledging such an important part of her private life!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think John Ettorre meant to reference John Hinkley, Jr. </p>
<p>Yay for Jodie for acknowledging such an important part of her private life!</p>
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		<title>By: Jill Miller Zimon</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-38746</link>
		<dc:creator>Jill Miller Zimon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Dec 2007 03:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh really? re: the bday?  Interesting!

I&#039;m a big fan of her work too.  Looking forward to see what&#039;s next.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh really? re: the bday?  Interesting!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a big fan of her work too.  Looking forward to see what&#8217;s next.</p>
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		<title>By: Keith</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-38729</link>
		<dc:creator>Keith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2007 22:36:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hard to say why she waited so long, she obviously had reasons we were not privy to. It was an open secret in Hollywood for many years. I can&#039;t help the fact I still remain somewhat smitten by her - we share one thing in particular - we were born on the exact same day - Nov. 19, 1962. Whether we have the same charts, I don&#039;t know since I don&#039;t know her hour of birth. But anyway, I&#039;m a big fan of hers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hard to say why she waited so long, she obviously had reasons we were not privy to. It was an open secret in Hollywood for many years. I can&#8217;t help the fact I still remain somewhat smitten by her &#8211; we share one thing in particular &#8211; we were born on the exact same day &#8211; Nov. 19, 1962. Whether we have the same charts, I don&#8217;t know since I don&#8217;t know her hour of birth. But anyway, I&#8217;m a big fan of hers.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill Miller Zimon</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-38704</link>
		<dc:creator>Jill Miller Zimon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2007 15:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Debra! I really like your blog - the name and everything.  I grew up with a &quot;Debra&quot; from Long Island (dau. of my parents friends) who moved to Y-town many years ago and is an attorney there.  I don&#039;t think it&#039;s you but that Debra has three or four kids, all must be in teens or older.  Anyway - it&#039;s not quite like saying, Oh! You&#039;re from England!? Do you know...?  But I figured, female lawyer in Y-town for a long time named Debra, maybe not too big a circle.

ANYWAY!

I agree - Jody Foster is a very smart woman.   And I get why she wouldn&#039;t have come out before and agree that the fact that she is now does mean something significant - BUT...a couple of things:

Here&#039;s what bothers me: part of me thinks that if smart women like her took the risk earlier, then this moment, for others, would happen earlier too? Do you know what I mean?

Which brings me to my second thing: SHE feels comfortable now. I&#039;d love for her to say something about what it is that&#039;s made her feel comfortable enough - is it JUST her or would she point to external factors, that others could point to also, and become comfortable?

I see things this way when it comes to moderates among groups - particularly political parties.  We know they are there but they don&#039;t &quot;come out&quot; so much. 

What does it take to make the risk worth taking?  Are those factors external, or only internal?

Thanks for reading and commenting!  Have a good weekend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Debra! I really like your blog &#8211; the name and everything.  I grew up with a &#8220;Debra&#8221; from Long Island (dau. of my parents friends) who moved to Y-town many years ago and is an attorney there.  I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s you but that Debra has three or four kids, all must be in teens or older.  Anyway &#8211; it&#8217;s not quite like saying, Oh! You&#8217;re from England!? Do you know&#8230;?  But I figured, female lawyer in Y-town for a long time named Debra, maybe not too big a circle.</p>
<p>ANYWAY!</p>
<p>I agree &#8211; Jody Foster is a very smart woman.   And I get why she wouldn&#8217;t have come out before and agree that the fact that she is now does mean something significant &#8211; BUT&#8230;a couple of things:</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what bothers me: part of me thinks that if smart women like her took the risk earlier, then this moment, for others, would happen earlier too? Do you know what I mean?</p>
<p>Which brings me to my second thing: SHE feels comfortable now. I&#8217;d love for her to say something about what it is that&#8217;s made her feel comfortable enough &#8211; is it JUST her or would she point to external factors, that others could point to also, and become comfortable?</p>
<p>I see things this way when it comes to moderates among groups &#8211; particularly political parties.  We know they are there but they don&#8217;t &#8220;come out&#8221; so much. </p>
<p>What does it take to make the risk worth taking?  Are those factors external, or only internal?</p>
<p>Thanks for reading and commenting!  Have a good weekend.</p>
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		<title>By: Debra Weaver</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-38703</link>
		<dc:creator>Debra Weaver</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2007 15:46:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jody Foster is a very smart woman.  It makes perfect sense to me that she has not previously come out as a lesbian.  To do so is often a career risk that simply isn&#039;t worth it.  For Jody Foster to come out at this time, makes me feel very hopeful that things are really changing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jody Foster is a very smart woman.  It makes perfect sense to me that she has not previously come out as a lesbian.  To do so is often a career risk that simply isn&#8217;t worth it.  For Jody Foster to come out at this time, makes me feel very hopeful that things are really changing.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill Miller Zimon</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-38642</link>
		<dc:creator>Jill Miller Zimon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2007 22:14:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oy.</p>
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		<title>By: John Ettorre</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-38638</link>
		<dc:creator>John Ettorre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2007 21:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mark David Chapman is no doubt in mourning over this news.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark David Chapman is no doubt in mourning over this news.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill Miller Zimon</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-38621</link>
		<dc:creator>Jill Miller Zimon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2007 18:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for reading and leaving a comment, Meg.

And yet what is so disturbing to me is that this incredibly capable, human woman just didn&#039;t feel - for whatever reasons I hope she will reveal as time goes on - that she COULD just say it, be it, do it, in front of so many people who do respect her, across the country.

I just think that her prior silence or failure to nod her hat to it is so unfortunate and powerful a message - hopefully a message that can change now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for reading and leaving a comment, Meg.</p>
<p>And yet what is so disturbing to me is that this incredibly capable, human woman just didn&#8217;t feel &#8211; for whatever reasons I hope she will reveal as time goes on &#8211; that she COULD just say it, be it, do it, in front of so many people who do respect her, across the country.</p>
<p>I just think that her prior silence or failure to nod her hat to it is so unfortunate and powerful a message &#8211; hopefully a message that can change now.</p>
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		<title>By: Meg</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2007/12/13/jodie-foster-comes-out/comment-page-1/#comment-38620</link>
		<dc:creator>Meg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Dec 2007 18:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>YAY! I knew it I knew it I told my girlfriend that Jodie will be the next to come out...Yes....Way to go Jodie!!!....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YAY! I knew it I knew it I told my girlfriend that Jodie will be the next to come out&#8230;Yes&#8230;.Way to go Jodie!!!&#8230;.</p>
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