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	<title>Comments on: The Peer Marriage of Bill and Hillary</title>
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		<title>By: Jill Miller Zimon</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2008/01/24/the-peer-marriage-of-bill-and-hillary/comment-page-1/#comment-46207</link>
		<dc:creator>Jill Miller Zimon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2008 01:26:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Polimom - I totally see the application of the peer marriage paradigm to the Clintons, and I know it matters intensely to some folks, and I can see how Bill&#039;s desires etc. would figure in if this model is apt.

BUT - seriously now, if we do this analysis to their marriage, then, to be fair, don&#039;t we owe it to them and ourselves to do a similar analysis of the marriage of each candidate on both sides, and kind of give a rating or something for how involved we imagine the spouse will be or what kind of influence we&#039;re talking about?

Laughing - just the thought of that! But still - think about it - Rudy Guiliani and Judith Nathan!  Dennis Kucinich and Elizabeth! (even tho they dropped out)

Anyway - just a thought.

Thanks again for raising this insight.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Polimom &#8211; I totally see the application of the peer marriage paradigm to the Clintons, and I know it matters intensely to some folks, and I can see how Bill&#8217;s desires etc. would figure in if this model is apt.</p>
<p>BUT &#8211; seriously now, if we do this analysis to their marriage, then, to be fair, don&#8217;t we owe it to them and ourselves to do a similar analysis of the marriage of each candidate on both sides, and kind of give a rating or something for how involved we imagine the spouse will be or what kind of influence we&#8217;re talking about?</p>
<p>Laughing &#8211; just the thought of that! But still &#8211; think about it &#8211; Rudy Guiliani and Judith Nathan!  Dennis Kucinich and Elizabeth! (even tho they dropped out)</p>
<p>Anyway &#8211; just a thought.</p>
<p>Thanks again for raising this insight.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill Miller Zimon</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2008/01/24/the-peer-marriage-of-bill-and-hillary/comment-page-1/#comment-46205</link>
		<dc:creator>Jill Miller Zimon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2008 01:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amanda - on some days, I agree with you on this issue 100% - can you say more about why it doesn&#039;t matter to you?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amanda &#8211; on some days, I agree with you on this issue 100% &#8211; can you say more about why it doesn&#8217;t matter to you?</p>
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		<title>By: Polimom</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2008/01/24/the-peer-marriage-of-bill-and-hillary/comment-page-1/#comment-46033</link>
		<dc:creator>Polimom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 17:22:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jill -- thank you for the link.

Re:  The Edwards&#039;, you said:
&lt;blockquote&gt;&quot;...except they don’t have that frustrated, angry piece and they don’t live the same life.&quot;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
The frustrated, angry piece doesn&#039;t apply to the Peer Marriage paradigm, but to the Traditional.  &quot;Living the same life&quot;, otoh, is pretty key to the concept.  It&#039;s not the same as enmeshment, but there are similarities.

My gut feeling is that no, the Edwards&#039; do not have a Peer Marriage.  But I don&#039;t know nearly as much about them.

Meanwhile... does it matter about the Clinton&#039;s marital dynamic?  I think it matters &lt;em&gt;intensely&lt;/em&gt; to some people.  Furthermore, if this is their marriage model, Bill Clinton&#039;s goals and aspirations do, in fact, become relevant to the campaign.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jill &#8212; thank you for the link.</p>
<p>Re:  The Edwards&#8217;, you said:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;&#8230;except they don’t have that frustrated, angry piece and they don’t live the same life.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>The frustrated, angry piece doesn&#8217;t apply to the Peer Marriage paradigm, but to the Traditional.  &#8220;Living the same life&#8221;, otoh, is pretty key to the concept.  It&#8217;s not the same as enmeshment, but there are similarities.</p>
<p>My gut feeling is that no, the Edwards&#8217; do not have a Peer Marriage.  But I don&#8217;t know nearly as much about them.</p>
<p>Meanwhile&#8230; does it matter about the Clinton&#8217;s marital dynamic?  I think it matters <em>intensely</em> to some people.  Furthermore, if this is their marriage model, Bill Clinton&#8217;s goals and aspirations do, in fact, become relevant to the campaign.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Stevens</title>
		<link>http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2008/01/24/the-peer-marriage-of-bill-and-hillary/comment-page-1/#comment-46018</link>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Stevens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 15:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who cares? Bill Clinton will make a great First Gentlemen, if that is how it turns out. The personal politics of their marriage didn&#039;t interest me in the 90s and it doesn&#039;t interest me now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who cares? Bill Clinton will make a great First Gentlemen, if that is how it turns out. The personal politics of their marriage didn&#8217;t interest me in the 90s and it doesn&#8217;t interest me now.</p>
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